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Dogs Get Jealous Too

Saturday, September 17th, 2011

TootsieRight now, I’m sitting for Tootsie and Roscoe, both miniature schnauzers.  It’s not been an easy year for Tootsie.  Her mom got married and Roscoe joined the household, too.  These were big changes for Tootsie, an older dog used to her routine and having her human all to herself.

Although this is a period of adjustment for everyone, there are some things you can do to make the transition to a combined household easier for your pet.  Here are some suggestions:

  • Introduce new people and their pets appropriately.  Introduce your dog to the new person and dog slowly, preferably on neutral ground.  If you have a dog park near you, that would work well for the introduction.  Take treats and reward your dog for good behavior.  Don’t force the dog to be “friends” with the newcomers, it’s best if it happens gradually.  Make the first introduction short, gradually increasing the time together until your dog feels comfortable.
  • Keep up one-to-one time with your dog.  If you have activities you do together, be sure to keep up with them.  Keep the routine as normal as possible, and once your dog feels confident, introduce him to new destinations so he will get used to experiencing new things.  Another idea would be to try a new activity, maybe something like agility to stimulate your dog’s mind.
  • Don’t reward negative behavior.  If your dog continues to act out, don’t reward, and thus reinforce the bad behavior.  Negative attention, though not as good as positive, is still attention.  If your dog starts whining, for example, ignore him.  Dogs are much like children this way, if they find something that works to help them get their way, they’ll do it!

Combining households can be fun, but challenging too.  Taking steps to help your dog through the transition will help him, and you, enjoy the new family even more!

Things My Dog Taught Me: Don’t Hold A Grudge

Friday, September 16th, 2011

There are so many things we could learn from our pets that I could go on with this series forever, but I’m going to stop after this third installment.  Have you ever held a grudge against someone for a perceived wrong done to you, only to find that other person has moved on and is doing fine?  If you think about it, does the grudge really serve any purpose?  Not really, what’s done is done and can’t be replayed, so doesn’t seem to waste time dwelling on it, right?

Well, once again, our pets are so much smarter about this than we humans.  Pets don’t hold grudges, at least not for more than a few minutes or maybe a day at the most because we’ve left them behind while we were gone.  Dogs live in the present, they don’t waste time on the past, or worry constantly about what might happen in the future.  Sometimes it seems that pets should hold a grudge, especially against a person that’s abusing them.  But, cool beings that they are, pets still care for those they think will take care of them.

You’ll breathe easier once you let the bad feelings tied to the grudge go. Chronic anger has been linked to a decline in lung function, while forgiveness contributes to lower blood pressure and reduced anxiety. People who forgive also tend to have higher self-esteem.

So take it from your wise canine buddy, let the grudge go…….you’ll feel so much better as a result!

What has your dog taught you?

Suddenly….he started biting!

Friday, August 5th, 2011

Bolt, Yorkie-Poo guest columnist:  I have a concern lately that has been gnawing at me.  I live with a six-year-old Wheaten Terrier that has become equal parts anxious, scared, and sometimes hostile.  This past week, he has nipped at one of the kiddos in the house….not once, but twice…and I am trying to figure out what is going on here!  His behavior has become erratic and downright strange lately.  It’s as if he is hiding a secret or warding off a dangerous personality change.

I went to dogbitelaw.com and was surprised at some facts I learned:

  1. A dog is more likely to attack when it is in its own yard, with no mater present.
  2. When dogs are in packs, they are more likely to attack.  Even docile dogs have been known to becomne vicious when in packs. (Not me!  I just go with the flow!)
  3. If a dog is chained or tethered, they are more dangerous. (You would be, too!)
  4. Being male is also a strike against a dog here.  Male dogs are several times more dangerous than female dogs, especially if unneutered.
  5. Did you know just being the new dog in the house has its risks?  For the first 60 days when new to a household, people in the home can be in danger of an attack by that dog.

Still trying to figure out what’s up with the Wheaten dog.  Old age? Mood disorder?  Need for personal space?  I sure don’t know, but we need to fix this quickly.  Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!

What Can a Dog Possibly Teach YOU?

Monday, August 1st, 2011

Jessie, leader of the pack, informer of the ignorant:  You know…if you think about it, dogs bring amazing life lessons to their humans in the simplest of ways.  If you watch and listen long enough, your lovable pooch just may teach you some things you previously did not understand or weren’t willing to appreciate:

1.) Be sure to happily greet everyone when they come home.

2.) Sure…you’ll get scolded on occasion for less than stellar behavior.  Don’t hold a grudge or stew in your own misery….get back in there and make friends again.

3.)  Appreciate a good meal and eat it with gusto.

4.)  Let the wind blow in your hair without worry over how it may look.

5.)  Speak (or bark!) your mind and enjoy the results!

6.)  Appreciate a lazy afternoon nap.

7.)  Incorporate some play time into every day!

8.) Be a loyal and faithful companion to those who matter most to you in life.

Well, I’ve waxed philosophical for the day.  More later!  I’m going to go enjoy a cool drink out of my water bowl and then just kick back by the window for awhile.  No harm in staring outside for a few minutes, losing myself  in a daydream.

Thanks to anecdote.com for some of these insightful lessons.

Five Rewards For Your Dog, Other Than Food

Monday, July 11th, 2011

For dogs, food is great, they love it, but rewarding them with treats all the time can lead to obesity, and we know the down side to that!  Looking for some alternatives to treats as rewards for your dog?  Check out these suggestions from Whole Dog Journal:

  1. Play with your dog.  What dog doesn’t like one-on-one play time with their human?  A good game of tug or fetch is good exercise for your pet and the play time is a good way to build the bond with your dog.
  2. Reward with experiences.  Does your dog especially love rides in the car, swimming at the lake or pool to name a couple experiences?  When your dog performs well and is worthy of reward, let him have a favorite experience.  This is very easy to do and he’ll love you even more for it!
  3. Kind words.  Some dogs are simply rewarded by warm words from their people.  When your dog is worthy of rewarding, try giving a “good dog” in a kind, gentle voice and watch his tail, and probably his whole back end, wag with joy!
  4. Touch  him where he likes it.  Many dogs love belly rubs, while others might prefer a scratch behind the ears.  Pay attention to your dog’s reactions when you’re petting him, and reward him with his favorite touch.
  5. Create space.  Creating space between your dog and a trigger that produces anxiety for him can be a great reward.

Food works as a reward, but as we’ve discussed, there can be other things he likes just as much, maybe more.  Figuring out what makes your dog’s tail wag can be a fun experience and help strengthen the bond you have with him.

Please let us use our sniff sense!

Wednesday, June 22nd, 2011

Jessie, always on the trail for the right scent: Hey!  I have a little tip of the day when it comes to your lovable dogs.  In his book, “Dog Sense,” animal behavior expert John Bradshaw conveys some pretty interesting information about dogs, stressing understanding of our fine pets over trying to dominate them.  I like this suggestion:

When you are outdoors with your dog, please let him take the time to sniff around.  He is curious about everthing going on in the small world around him. In fact, the ritual of sniffing is probably a very important part of his day, a true highlight.  Just as you wouldn’t want someone to abruptly change the TV channel as you were watching it, your dog does not appreciate being pulled away from one of his favorite activities.

Go ahead, Rover!  Sniff away! It’s your birthright!

Do You Know what Makes Your Dog Tick?

Thursday, June 9th, 2011

When I am pet sitting, I take my cues from the pet I’m caring for regarding how we spend our time together. Sometimes it could be all play, another time some play and some TLC. I have found the pets enjoy the visit more if they get what they need at that particular.

In an article published in the May 2011 issue of Whole Dog Journal, a similar concept called free-time training is discussed. This method involves observing your pet in various circumstances and environments to see what motivates him. Once an owner knows his pet’s motivation, the knowledge can be incorporated into training sessions to make them more successful.

When starting free-time training, here are a few suggestions:

-Be sure to work in a safe area with no traffic and minimal outside distractions

-Some days you’ll learn more. Realize that some days will just be a fun outing, while other days you may learn much about your dog.

-If your dog tends to be cautious or worrisome, start with short session, 5-10 minutes. The free time could overwhelm your dog at first, starting slow will help ease him into free-time better.

-Be careful not to direct your dog’s play. Be there as a source of encouragement, but the intent is to let your dog follow his natural tendencies, that’s when you’ll learn more about what makes him tick.

It can be quite enlightening to sit back and watch your dog. What makes your dog tick?

Ignore Us and We’ll Love You!

Monday, May 30th, 2011

Marty, the cat on the prowl, investigating the latest in public thought and opinion:  Folks say cats are particular.  I say dogs are!  Why?  Well, have you ever wondered why they seem to be most attracted to people who don’t pay attention to them? No. They don’t see this as a challenge. In fact, they see it as a very non-aggressive approach. You see, if one is an animal lover, he will most likely express his interest in dogs by bending over them and trying to pet them.  That form of body language right there can be assessed as dominant and hostile by the dog, and he will want to retreat from that.  Ignore them, and they keep coming back to you.  They see what we call inattention as friendly and non-threatening. Typically, when people don’t care for dogs, they tend to look away, which is dog langauge for “friendly!”

I just don’t get it, however.  Love me, pet me, make me purr, and I am yours!

Happy Memorial Day!  We salute all military personnel, active, retired, and who have also been laid to rest. God bless you all!

(Information for this post was found at bowwowdognews.com.)

Do You Know What Your Dog is Up to When You Are Away?

Wednesday, March 9th, 2011

Jessie, the well-behaved dog, knowledge of many things, expert on few:  It happens every day.  You humans leave your homes and keep us behind, left to take care of ourselves for a bit and find some way to relieve the boredom until you return later in the day.  It’s a ritual for us.  We are used to it, but do you ever wonder about what we REALLY do once you back out of the driveway?

My Wheaten Terrier buddy, Naismith, would like to convince his humans that he immediately races to the couch, grabs the remote, flips to “E” Entertainment Television, and commands the younger dog, Bolt, to pop some corn in the microwave.  After all, on some days, it would appear that the dogs have had  a great time in their owner’s absence.  The owner will come home and find a few things  not quite the way she left them.  For the most part, however, Naismith and his partner in crime usually just retreat to their own special corners of the home office and snooze until someone walks in the door.  On occasion, they might sneak up on the comfy couch and let the sun beaming in from the windows warm up their bodies, but they usually tend to just snore away the time.  Once that garage door goes up, however, they enthusiastically bark as if to suggest, “We’ve been good! We’ve been good!  We barked at every person who walked by the house and scared them away!  Got any treats for us?”

Most dogs will do what these two dogs do when left home alone:  sleep.  They may sniff around for  a bit at first, but, they usually just do a brief assessment of the situation, realize you have left, and plop down on the floor to await your return, chasing cats and cars in only their dreams.

There are some dogs, however, that do not handle being alone very well.  They may have excess energy or just a tad bit more enthusiasm than your average dog.  You may come home after a couple of hours and find some chewed up carpet, shoes, or furniture edges.  Someone’s been busy while you’ve been away, and they are letting you know they aren’t too happy with your absence.  Boredom is not their thing.

In such cases, it might be wise to invest in a pet sitter or doggie day care if you are going to be away for several hours. A reliable pet sitter, like those from Joy of Living in Kansas City, can stop by your home a couple of times each day and provide some fun and entertainment for your special dog.

In Naismith’s case, in his earlier days, his human used to put him in a small room with toys, food, and water if she was going to be away for a couple of hours.  As Naismith grew accustomed to the solitude, his boundaries within the home broadened.  He pretty much rules the roost now when his human is away. Admittedly, he will get up on the “forbidden” couch, but if that is the least of what he does, then his owner is not too upset.  Maybe one of these days she will plop down on his doggie bed and see what he thinks of that!

(Thanks to goodhousekeeping.com for insight on this fun topic!)

Dogs Have the Right Perspective

Tuesday, March 8th, 2011

I’ve written before about all our pets can teach us, but I read this in the latest issue of  The Bark Magazine and liked it so much I wanted to share.

Dogs have the right idea when it comes to:

  • Having the capacity for unselfish love.  Dogs love us regardless of our faults and know how to make friends quickly and easily.  They don’t obsess about the trials and tribulations of the day and truly embrace the concept of unconditional love.
  • Having the ability to live in the moment.  Dogs don’t live in the past nor do they worry about the future, they are masters at living in the moment.  They know what it’s all about to stop and smell the roses!
  • Keeping the peace.  Dogs are peaceful souls that have a “live and let live” philosophy.  They like to be around friendly beings and enjoy being in a harmonious environment.

How DID they get so smart?